Comments on: Why can’t we just be friends?–Q&A Intimacies http://trueintimacies.com/2009/09/why-cant-we-just-be-friends-qa-intimacies/ Secrets of Love, Sex & Romance--a book by Karen Kreps Sun, 12 Dec 2010 04:43:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: tom wise http://trueintimacies.com/2009/09/why-cant-we-just-be-friends-qa-intimacies/comment-page-1/#comment-5016 tom wise Wed, 13 Jan 2010 07:08:00 +0000 http://trueintimacies.com/?p=609#comment-5016 So many of us find love, romance and such and forget that in the end, we must LIKE them too. I love the heat, fire and all of the chemical burn/yearn. But truly, nothing I have found so far trumps a real friend or a relationship based in friendship. Of course, it also helps that my personal hormones have eased off allowing me to hear, see and feel again versus commanding me to, in Ken Wilbur's words FIKI. Great answers for so simple a question! cheers, tom So many of us find love, romance and such and forget that in the end, we must LIKE them too. I love the heat, fire and all of the chemical burn/yearn. But truly, nothing I have found so far trumps a real friend or a relationship based in friendship.

Of course, it also helps that my personal hormones have eased off allowing me to hear, see and feel again versus commanding me to, in Ken Wilbur’s words FIKI.

Great answers for so simple a question!

cheers, tom

]]> By: JP http://trueintimacies.com/2009/09/why-cant-we-just-be-friends-qa-intimacies/comment-page-1/#comment-4328 JP Sun, 27 Sep 2009 02:45:56 +0000 http://trueintimacies.com/?p=609#comment-4328 Thank you for your recent e-mail to me with the attachment of your answer to my question. I really liked your answer and think you did a really good job on it. I really miss your Intimacies group at Book People and thought you were a great facilitator of it. Thank you for your recent e-mail to me with the attachment of your answer to
my question. I really liked your answer and think you did a really good job on it. I really miss your Intimacies group at Book People and thought you were a great facilitator of it.

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