Comments on: Wake Up from the Sex Stupor http://trueintimacies.com/2009/08/wake-up-from-the-sex-stupor/ Secrets of Love, Sex & Romance--a book by Karen Kreps Sun, 12 Dec 2010 04:43:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jeff Johannigman http://trueintimacies.com/2009/08/wake-up-from-the-sex-stupor/comment-page-1/#comment-3971 Jeff Johannigman Fri, 28 Aug 2009 13:54:32 +0000 http://trueintimacies.com/?p=586#comment-3971 I agree with Pam. Lack of interest is only rarely related to the activities IN bed. More often, it's a sign of a lack of intimacy in the rest of the relationship. Look at how you're communicating with her the rest of the day. Are you expressing your affection for her throughout? Are you helping enough with the housework? Are you having fun together? If you aren't creating intimacy through the day, how can you expect her to express it at night? Jeff I agree with Pam. Lack of interest is only rarely related to the activities IN bed. More often, it’s a sign of a lack of intimacy in the rest of the relationship. Look at how you’re communicating with her the rest of the day. Are you expressing your affection for her throughout? Are you helping enough with the housework? Are you having fun together? If you aren’t creating intimacy through the day, how can you expect her to express it at night?

Jeff

]]> By: Pam Mitchell http://trueintimacies.com/2009/08/wake-up-from-the-sex-stupor/comment-page-1/#comment-3957 Pam Mitchell Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:37:51 +0000 http://trueintimacies.com/?p=586#comment-3957 All of your suggestions for Wake Up Andrew were on target, but the problem may not be in the bedroom, but in the rest of life. Does he spend time with his love one actually interacting and having fun together. Real romance and sexual intimacy sometimes starts in the kitchen cooking a meal together. Then when you get to the bedroom at the end of the day, the foundation for lovemaking has been built. Pam All of your suggestions for Wake Up Andrew were on target, but the problem may not be in the bedroom, but in the rest of life. Does he spend time with his love one actually interacting and having fun together. Real romance and sexual intimacy sometimes starts in the kitchen cooking a meal together. Then when you get to the bedroom at the end of the day, the foundation for lovemaking has been built.
Pam

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